How To Cultivate Oneself?

There are five words for Zeng Guofan's Cultivation: sincerity, respect, silence, sincerity and constant.

Honesty means honesty and sincerity.

To be a man, to be himself, everything can be made public.

Respecting, respecting is awesome.

Static means that people's heart, Qi, spirit and body must be at peace and relaxation.

To be careful, it means verbal caution, no big talk, false talk and empty words. One is two, the other is two.

Heng means life is regular, diet is regular, and daily living is frequent.

The highest state of these five words is "caution alone", that is, people should be cautious about their own solitude, that is, without any supervision, they should be treated according to the standards of saints and according to the highest standards.

"People have to be afraid" is a good saying. Now people are a bit lawless. Today I read a story in the newspaper that fans had cut more than 20 knives on each other because they had seen a super girl. What a beast!

And now the university students pass the examination for the sake of examination. They try their best to cheat, take the test, pmit the phone, pass the sliver, and forget the questions every 46 exams.

Even the invigilator of the college entrance examination this year will receive anti cheating training.

"Quiet" and "sincere" also need me to wait for time to study, so that I can finally become a man with grace, graceful manners, mature and reliable men.

Finally, there is a healthy body. This is very important. The body is the capital of revolution. Nothing is lost without body.

Comrades, take time to exercise your body!

In short, please remember the words of Wang Guozhen, a young poet, "man is not necessarily great, but he must be a noble man".

The reason why a person should cultivate himself is to improve himself. He is healthy and helpful to family, society, friends and career.

Self cultivation, you can know how to interact with people.

How do we cultivate ourselves? There are four points:

First, to be frugal at home: if a person loves to glory and glory, he will only gain pleasure from evil, and sometimes he will lose his family.

For example, Li Shangyin said, "to look at the former country and the family is a matter of diligence and frugality."

Frugality is not a matter of stingy or mere hair. It is not real life.

Sima Guang said: "from extravagance to frugality, from frugality to extravagance and convenience", we have developed a luxurious habit. The rich family will eventually become poor. On the contrary, if we can make good use of our energy, we will have to save some food and porridge, and even turn to poverty and become rich.

Second, entrepreneurship must be diligent: This is a society of natural selection. "Survival of the fittest" is an inevitable law.

If a person wants to succeed in his career, he does not depend on his family's prestige or his or her origin, but on his diligence and efforts.

The saying goes: "hard work, no play," diligence can change your life.

A poor person, as long as he can work hard, he will be able to turn to be rich. For example, Li Jiacheng, the king of plastic flowers in Hongkong, and Toyoda Sayoshi of the Japanese automobile Kingdom, do not all create the road of success through hard work? So diligence is the way to start a business.

Third, treat others with humility: there is an important secret in getting along with others, that is modesty.

A person's knowledge is better. If he is arrogant and modest, he will not feel the favor of the supervisor. If a person looks beautiful, if he is conceited and unaware, he will not be praised by others. If a person is more capable, if he does not know how to tolerate, it will be rare for others to have friendship.

Zeng Guofan said, "modesty does not invite people to be jealous."

Therefore, humility and harmony can be achieved; courtesy and courtesy can be respected; therefore, "modest" is the way to treat others.

Fourth, things should be done: "harmony with others is good."

Anger is not only harmful to the health of the human body, but also tends to make a slight change into a big one, making it unreasonable and even making inappropriate decisions. Therefore, we must be calm in dealing with others.

Peace of mind can calm the mind and calm the mind.

The ancients said: "peace of mind, and then enough to be uneven, so that peace, big things become small things, small things become nothing."

Therefore, "harmony" is the way to do things.

It is dangerous for a man to get along with others and not to know his absence. Therefore, we should not always blame others for their mistakes.

It should be noted that in the world law, it is often easy for the outside to be difficult for the interior, easy to cultivate, easy to fix, difficult to do, difficult to read, and easy to read.

There are four opinions on how to cultivate oneself.

First, be frugal at home.

Second, entrepreneurship must be diligent.

Third, treat others with courtesy.

Fourth, things should be smooth.